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Magazines
By Text and photos by Ann Coady
Our immigrant neighbors A Maryknoll Affiliate’s longing to return to developing world is met at her doorstep in places such as a Wisconsin clinic A Maryknoll Affiliate’s longing to return to developing world is met at her doorstep in places such as a Wisconsin clinic
As a young adult, recently returned from a stint in the Peace Corps in Colombia, I longed to go back to the developing world, but things kept getting in the way—a new baby, my husband studying for state boards, a sick child, an aging parent in need of assistance. I felt I was living in limbo, waiting to return someday, living life on hold. Then a phone call changed my perspective. Someone from the local St. Vincent de Paul chapter had to make a call on a family of recent immigrants from El Salvador, and asked if I would go along to interpret. After that, word got out into the community that there was someone who understood their language and their needs and was willing to help. The phone started ringing off the hook. At the time I was a “stay at home” mom, waiting for the domestic duties to lighten up. It got to the point that our youngest child, who was just learning to talk, would speak in English to us, but when talking on the toy telephone, would speak only Spanish. One day I called the local school district to help a newly arrived family enroll their child. The district had just received a state grant to establish an outreach program to serve lower income residents, and the director I spoke with offered to hire me on the spot! Thus began a 25-year career with the Port Washington schools in New York, helping mostly immigrant families negotiate systems, access resources, and generally integrate into the culture of the school district. During that period we went through different waves of immigration, with students arriving from Central America, Ecuador, Chile, and later the Middle East. I still remember the Salvadoran children, who arrived so traumatized by the war there that they would dive One of the highlights of that experience was setting up a family summer camp so that parents and children who could not afford a vacation could spend a week together in beautiful Harriman State Park. Once I was also invited by a group of Turkish businessmen to tour their country at their expense, along with a few colleagues, and to experience their wonderful hospitality in an effort to foster mutual understanding. The following year, an Indian-American colleague invited me to go to India with her to announce to her extended family that she would eschew an arranged marriage in favor of a love match with an Italian-American. The news was not particularly well received, but change is never easy. One of the greatest satisfactions for me was, toward the end of my tenure with the school system, helping to fill out college financial aid forms for the very students I had helped to register as preschoolers. A few years ago, with our nest empty and an extended family calling, my husband, Jim, and I packed up and moved back to the Midwest I expected that my adventures with immigrants were behind me, but the Twin Cities I had left in my 20s was not the Twin Cities to which I returned! My mother had moved into assisted living housing and many of her “assistants” were Liberian and Somali, part of the largest Somali community outside
I have also taken parttime employment at a rural free clinic that was getting started in River Falls, Wis. (20 minutes southeast of here). A couple of months after the clinic opened, someone brought in a Mexican laborer for treatment. Until then I didn’t know that local dairy farmers trying to hold on to their family farms in the face of competition from big agribusiness companies are hiring Mexicans to do the work done by large families No, I never did get back to the developing world, except to visit. Instead, I opened my eyes and the developing world came to me. The Maryknoll Affiliates are people who seek to carry Maryknoll’s faith-based concern for the world’s poor into their day-to-day lives. | |||||||||
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